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Your Stress & Overwhelm *Is* Your Self-Sabotage

Oct 22, 2024

I said it....🫒

Your STRESS & overwhelm *is* your self-sabotage. Let me explain by walking through your day.

You wake up and think πŸ’­ about all you have to do today, wishing you didn’t have to do a few of the things you previously agreed to πŸ˜ͺ and you’re pouring from an ‘empty cup’...or one with lots of coffee β˜• because that’s all you can look forward to.

πŸ‘‰That’s your People-Pleasing Saboteur, tying you down to commitments that you don’t want to do…and maybe even the Victim Saboteur if you start to feel sorry for yourself for longer than a second. It's exhausting you and you haven't even started your day!

 

Then, your day gets started and you start overthinking about what your boss said yesterday; what your partner meant when they said XYZ; or all that could go wrong between your πŸ‘©‍πŸ’»work meetings and bedtime routine tonight.

πŸ‘‰That’s your Hyper-Vigilant Saboteur, tricking your brain into thinking that you HAVE to be aware of all situations to feel “safe”. It's keeping you distracted & overly stressed about things that don't truly matter. 

 

Throughout your day, 🫧 stress bubbles up 🫧 because you have so much on your to do list πŸ“...and even more gets piled on when Susan dumps her problems on you -or- when your kids decide NOT to eat the dinner you made. So, you find yourself πŸ‘‚half-listening to your family while cooking dinner or giving your kids baths, πŸ“± disconnecting and scrolling your phone at night or even putting off important conversations.

πŸ‘‰That’s your Avoider Saboteur, pretending like the comfort of dissociating will make everything better; when in fact things just start piling up. It's keeping you overwhelmed because those things don't go away (which you're well aware of).

 

🀯🀯 Are you following me, and even feeling me on this??🀯🀯

There’s actually 6 MORE Saboteurs that are getting in the way of your every day, KEEPING YOU stressed & overwhelmed. 

 The sad part?

The longer you stay stuck in these repetitive (even unconscious) feelings

βœ–οΈ the more it impacts the connection you have with your family & friends

βœ–οΈ the quicker you’ll lose your ‘spark’ and motivation

βœ–οΈ you’ll start to believe that “this is just the way it is” and feel hopeless

 

The Self Sabotage Detox is the 4 month group coaching experience where I'll guide you through:

πŸ‘‰ pinpointing how *your* top Saboteurs are affecting YOUR life directly

πŸ‘‰ create a plan to disrupt them in real time

πŸ‘‰ anticipate your days so that you never get stuck feeling hopeless, going-through-the-motions, or losing your spark ever again

It’s  πŸš€LAUNCH WEEKπŸš€ so of course I’ve got a SALE + a bonus to celebrate!!

This group coaching experience comes with soooo many incredible resources. Take a peek:

 

This is valued at over $10,000 but I’m offering it for only $2,997. 

HOWEVER, when you sign up today thru Friday...you get the cheaper payment plan of 4 payments of $697 + getting a 1:1 call with me! (valued at $300). 

Email me at hello@samantha-says.com for no-strings-attached details and to see if this group would be a good fit for you!

Here's to disrupting your saboteurs and living an intentional, HAPPY, life no matter how busy your day or chaotic your life is!

You've tried the planners, the time blocking, the systems.

What if the solution isn't adding more...but addressing what's keeping you from using what you already have?

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